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Loading ...After 26 yrs of my life …and Number of serious and casual relations i came to a realization which never struck me before.. An individuals Character is the safest long term bet you can have on them …
I was heading back home from work and a old college buddy gave me a buzz .. Did’nt have anything better to do so figured i would catch up with him.
Sitting at a bar he was blowing his horns about casually dating a married woman at work.. I was not surprised but to bust his chops i just asked him…
Me : Hey How old are you now ?
Him : 25 Yrs
Me: Cool so i am sure you would be married in a few years .. have anything on your cards ?
Him : Maybe in a few years
Me : Hey you know there maybe a remote possibility a few years down the line when your married. You could have 2 Single guys sitting in this bar and discussing your wife … lol
Him : STOP Don’t you dare say another word on that … i’ll find myself a decent girl
Me : Ah
Me : So looks like it maybe arranged
Him : I guess it could be …
Me : Hmmm…
Me: So a thought just occurred to me so your saying the current married chic you are dating is not a decent chic hence you are going out with her to have a good time .. But you would only marry a decent chic ?
Him : Correct
Me: Being the smart ass i am 
” Hey so is there a remote possibility that the decent chic you decide to marry suddenly has the realization that she has not explored life and decides to change her approach post you guys get married”
He Looked at me stunned.. With No answer
Me: So either ways you are screwd 
Anyways we ended that conversation … i lit up a smoke .. as i took the first puff …
It hit me maybe character of an individual is the safest long term bet
There is a Chinese saying ” Its easier to change the course of a river or the shape of a mountain .. Then to change and Individuals Character… ”
Individuals Change with time and keep changing till the end of their time … There is no known constant from birth to death ..
Food for thought ?
Peace
Timber Da Wolf
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