Life n its Lessons

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Its about time i finish this … Been a draft for a few months now ..

Criticize yourself more then others do… But Appreciate yourself more then others ever will .. Unless you don’t appreciate yourself .. others never will..

Anyone interested in self-development would have an open mind, have the ability to question the status quo, and find their own truth beyond the barrage of misinformation and ingrained beliefs of our society.

Anyways let get to the point here … Have you ever tried to change yourself ?

Most folks i know tend to apply a barrage of changes after major events in their lives …i have too and when i look back at it .. how many of those changes did i actually accomplish ? An individuals growth into life is a slow abstract process .. while change is a slow drawn out process … Abstract or Drawn out one needs to accept a fundamental fact rome wasn’t built in a day.. nor was or will your life ..

Here is what works best for me .. Make Two Lists

a) All the Things you are good at i.e Good Qualities/Habits etc
b) All the Things you suck at i.e Bad Qualities/Habits etc

Now Prioritize list B in a order you think is best for you

Every day look at that list .. First List A and give yourself a pat on your back …and then List B .. The day you decide to apply your first change take the last item on list B and give it a shot once you accomplish it.. give yourself a break for a few weeks and see if the change actually sticks around .. a change is not a change unless it sticks .. if it doesn’t its just a phase .. Once you think you are ready for more take the second last item .. and keep going up the list .. time is not a essential factor here .. the race is only with yourself so don’t try and benchmark yourself..

The Rational behind addressing your list backwards is simple … One needs to learn to crawl before you can even attempt to walk ..

Peace

Timber Da Wolf