Life n its Lessons

We meet new people every day of our life’s … Often it doesn’t take more then one meeting to form an opinion about someone… Not that it matters who forms what opinion about myself .. but it does matter what i form about someone.. For the most part i refrain from forming an opinion about someone .. But eventually with time when i do .. i try my best to see the good qualities and ignore the rest as long as it doesn’t harm my soul…

Everyone is special in their own sweet way.. and deserve respect .. For the most part 5 out 10 individuals will surprise you with the hidden qualities they poses…. which often we tend to ignore post are initial opinions ..

i have burnt my hands more often then i have gained dear friends by opting for this route but when i weigh what i have gained over the years against the number of scars which were left behind .. its a small price to pay for having people who watch my back…

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

Its not everyday that you realize what a jackass you are in matters of the heart with close friends and loved ones…

It started 2 weeks back at the hard rock cafe when i was out hanging out with a few friends … and a very dear friend passed a statement about me…. mentioned in all good intention and taken in the right spirit by me .. Struck a cord with me .. i happened to ask him the next day when i was sober and he told me maybe he didn’t use the right words but i knew what he meant …

Considering the connection i share with him i got a rough idea about the matter … I gave it a thought realized it but did nothing about it … until this evening when it was hammered into my head by a chain of events which i never imagined in my wildest dreams would occur … maybe i should have seen it coming ..

What those events where are little too personal for me to disclose

On my way back home i was putting things together .. a few questions arose in my mind, i called up another friend and asked her … Although i knew it would push her off the edge.. Its just something i had to get in the clear ..i got my answers but yet they didn’t seem convincing enough…

Took me a couple of weeks of pondering around with my thoughts and conversations with some friends to come to a conclusion

Love is blind…. Friendship tries not to notice…

The Rational behind calling someone a close friend or a loved one is when you let your guard down around them..and share n care a little more then the average

Events are likely to occur with them just as they would with a normal person with who you may have your guard up against…and there is not much one can do besides take it with a pinch of salt…

In Love or in Friendship being a jackass is but natural … i have been one for a while and will continue to be for the rest of my life … choosing not to do so would lead my soul into solitude … and solitude is a temporary asylum which can never last a lifetime …

Peace
Timder Da Wolf

I have been meeting tons of friends over the past few months .. Some i have not seen in a decade some a few months and of course the regular entourage..

A few days back i was out with some folks i have not seen in 12 years and we had a blast. Some of them were not that close to me 12 years back. However we acknowledged each other in those days. This meeting was different.. even though we were never that close we seemed to be the best of buddies that night.. There were tons of other people who were hanging out with us and could not relate to our conversations but yet we went on being in a world of our own…it was like we were back in school..

Yes i relived memories that night …

A few weeks back a friend called me up to invite me to his wedding .. i have not even spoken to this guy in years and nor were we that close in college

i have also tried to reach out to some of my closest buddies in school .. And i have not heard back from them

Made tons of friends over the years post school .. some of the relations still stand firm till date .. some faded off with time and some had a bumpy end..

And as the years pass by…good people and friends are hard to come by…

When i look back at time to what i can remember .. and look at where i stand now

Someone who was acquittance a decade back .. seemed to be like a brother from another mother
Someone who was a good friend decade back … seemed to be like a stranger

Well people grow up … Priorities change .. Outlook Changes

Understood and Given …

But where did the innocence go ? i don’t recollect being friends with someone cause of the way the look or dress or how deep pockets they had..

Back then it was just so simple … Who Set the Criteria anyways over the years ? Did you with the influence of life ?

How did one make friends with no criteria ? Filter them 10 years down based on a criteria

A friend of mine said people grow up and know the difference between right and wrong.. Well i give it to him there that may happen in one off cases if there is something at all to judge about an individual

But i still seek an conclusion to my thought .. If anyone has a view i would love to hear about it

Peace
TimberDaWolf