Individual Choices

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Its a known fact.. that choices we make in our lives leads us down certain paths for the better or worse …

I have made many choices myself.. Maybe things would be different today if i did not make those choices… But no one can undo the past … and i would not like to either … i have learnt to live with them in most cases and leave them behind in some cases …. The accountability is and will always be solely mine…

People make choices … and sometimes when you care enough .. you feel accountable for the choices they make… This can often get a little too overwhelming to handle… and over time i have come to realize ..

Individuals need to own up to their choices and no matter how much you care .. In reality you can never really own up to the choices they make..

So as a wise man said once “Condemn none: if you can stretch out a helping hand, do so. If you cannot, fold your hands, bless your loved ones, and let them go their own way.”

We are whatever we are today because of the choices we made in our past .. And we will be whatever tomorrow based on the choices we make today…

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

Like the Wind…

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I woke up with morning… Checked my emails as usual …Was a little surprised to find an email from someone with a picture of myself and my dad back in the days…

Its been a while since I saw that picture… but it did bring back some memories

Some good.. and Some bad …

If our life’s were a book…. would you look at each day as a page … a month as a chapter ???  I know I do.. and each day is a master piece on its own … irrespective of how abstract it may seem to others …

I can’t change history nor can I change actions and events of the past … its simply beyond my control… there are higher forces of nature in play here… The unforeseen future may hold in store many such instances too …Shall deal with them when its time to cross those bridges…

One known maxim that drives my life … emotion is like the wind … it will always come knocking on your doors and windows …  whether  we choose to open is a whole different story all together …Sometimes its not worth opening closed chapters in your life … as the end result cannot be changed no matter how you look at it ..

Open chapters are a whole different story …

Cheers
Timber Da Wolf

Second View

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Sometimes i wonder if it was worth it … But then no one can ever undo the past

I attempted a few leaps over the past few months without having a safety net in place…. Murphy’s Law applied i guess.. it was the only time i jumped without a safety net in a very long time and landed face flat…it never happened all those other times when i had the net in the right place..

Managed to dig myself out by 3 feet and have another 3 to go …. i see another opportunity present itself …

My risk tolerance should not be this high considering my age and my responsibilities … it would be a whole different ball game if age was the only determining factor….

Unfortunately my gut tells me and has told me since i was 16… i need to walk that fine line to make up for the lost ground…

Success follows a man who has the ability to stand up after a hit… Learning a lesson from the whole ordeal is a added bonus… But Lessons are learnt from your past and are only applied when certain assumptions are considered in the future…

A second view helps… It might just work if i play my cards right

After all Restlessness and discontent are the first necessities of progress….

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

The Estranged Truth..

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An individual’s past is always the estranged truth .. that another might find difficult to make peace with..

Our Persistent antagonism can often alienate our closest… its only human nature to despise what does not fit into our paradigm of moral judgments….

William Shakespeare … Once wrote

“I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him;
The evil that men do lives after them,
The good is oft interred with their bones,
So let it be with Caesar …”

Although like an arrow that pierces the heart…. Bury the past and praise the future.. that is the only route to salvation of a life that craves happiness..

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

Disclaimer : The application of above listed words may vary by choice or by situation.. so don’t be a jackass..and apply it to all aspects of your life.. besides i am a lil high :)

Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans

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A Interesting thought …. By someone with wisdom derived over the years

It’s been 18 years since I joined Volvo, a Swedish company. Working for them has proven to be an interesting experience. Any project here takes 2 years to be finalized, even if the idea is simple and brilliant. It’s a rule.

Globalize processes have caused in us (all over the world) a general sense of searching for immediate results. Therefore, we have come to posses a need to see immediate results. This contrasts greatly with the slow movements of the Swedish. They, on the other hand, debate, debate, debate, hold x quantity of meetings and work with a slowdown scheme. At the end, this always yields better results.

Said in another words:1. Sweden is about the size of San Pablo, a state in Brazil.

2. Sweden has 2 million inhabitants.

3. Stockholm, has 500,000 people.

4. Volvo,Escania, Ericsson, Electrolux, Nokia are some of its renowned companies.Volvo supplies the NASA.

The first time I was in Sweden, one of my colleagues picked me up at the hotel every morning. It was September, bit cold and snowy. We would arrive early at the company and he would park far away from the entrance (2000employees drive their car to work). The first day, I didn’t say anything,either the second or third. One morning I asked, “Do you have a fixed parking space? I’ve noticed we park far from the entrance even when there are no other cars in the lot.” To which he replied,  “Since we’re here early we’ll have time to walk, and whoever gets in late will be late and need a place closer to the door. Don’t you think?Imagine my face.

Nowadays, there’s a movement in Europe name Slow Food. This movement establishes that people should eat and drink slowly, with enough time totaste their food, spend time with the family, friends, without rushing. SlowFood is against its counterpart: the spirit of Fast Food and what it stands for as a lifestyle. Slow Food is the basis for a bigger movement called Slow Europe, as mentioned by Business Week.

Basically, the movement questions the sense of “hurry” and “craziness”generated by globalization, fueled by the desire of “having in quantity”(life status) versus “having with quality”, “life quality” or the “quality of being”. French people, even though they work 35 hours per week, are more productive than Americans or British.

Germans have established 28.8 hour workweeks and have seen their productivity been driven up by 20%. This slow attitude has brought forth the US’s attention, pupils of the fast and the “do it now!” This no-rush attitude doesn’t represent doing less or having a lower productivity. It means working and doing things with greater quality, productivity,perfection, with attention to detail and less stress. It means reestablishing family values, friends, free and leisure time. Taking the”now”, present and concrete, versus the “global”, undefined and anonymous.It means taking humans’ essential values, the simplicity of living.

It stands for a less coercive work environment, more happy, lighter and more productive where humans enjoy doing what they know best how to do. It’s time to stop and think on how companies need to develop serious quality with no-rush that will increase productivity and the quality of products and services, without losing the essence of spirit.

In the movie, Scent of a Woman, there’s a scene where Al Pacino asks a girl to dance and she replies, “I can’t, my boyfriend will be here any minute now”. To which Al responds, “A life is lived in an instant”. Then they dance to a tango.

Many of us live our lives running behind time, but we only reach it when we die of a heart attack or in a car accident rushing to be on time. Others areso anxious of living the future that they forget to live the present, which is the only time that truly exists. We all have equal time throughout the world. No one has more or less.

The difference lies in how each one of us does with our time. We need tolive each moment. As John Lennon said, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans”.