Life n its Lessons

It was a funny evening .. i was out with a few friends at baluchi’s just for casual drinks and dinner ..

During the course of the night friend happened to mention that he is really disappointing he has not had a two way click with anyone post his first wife with whom he parted ways about 4 years back … Either she is not indian or there is no chemistry or her priorities are not matching with mine or she slept with me on the first date.. the list goes on and on

i stayed with the guy for 3 years so i kinda know about the women that he has been dating over the years …and if i were t give my honest opinion .. at 42 … i think he has his bar of expectations set too high..

The second guy who was on the table is 30 something … don’t know him too well but i have heard him talk about his preference a couple of times .. and i honestly thought he needs to look on mars for a match

i know someone who is 56 and single …craves everyday that he had someone special to only talk…

The night was young and drinks where pouring across the bar … but for some strange reason i was stuck in a moment .. a lingering thought …

I first fell in love when i was 13 … with a girl that i saw one glimpse of ..went out with her for eternity.. piratically grew up with her

The second time i was 21 and well took me a month .. but i did take the leap again .. with a real bumpy 4 year ride… almost made it though

The Third time i was 26 ..took me a year … and it ended even before it started

I am 27 now …. “P” is 42 and “V” is 30 something “A” is 52 … hmm

Individual outlook ? Hmm maybe…. but not convincing enough

Man learns with time .. as he grows older mostly with experience…which shapes his perspective. But what man perceives need not always be the truth

The more i thought about it the more i came to terms with the fact .. That its human nature to complicate things…. even if the answer hit you smack in between your eyes…

Ignorance towards others individuality and obsession with our search for perfection often lets one miss out on the small joys of life …

As a wise man once told me.. if you seek mangoes in winter .. you shall find none

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

You will never know someone …. Unless someone decides you should know them
its the profound truth whether we like it or not ..

Its Human Nature to fear oneself naked from the preying eyes of the world.

Sometimes our doings are best left untold as repercussions would not only hurt you as a individual but many around you as well ..  i don’t agree with the above .. but i do respect it ….

A few have trusted me to see what they hide .. Many have shown me what they would like me to see… and then there are a few who i would like to know but would never know anything about …

After all you are what you hide …

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

Every once in a while i seem to get into a conversation with someone or the other regarding someone screwing them over .. in their personal or professional lives… And often i hear this ” Once trust is broken.. it can never be repaired” Well in most cases of professional arrangements i would agree to it….

Personal … Well not always the case

If you look all around you.. You find people .. People who are different in their own unique way. No two people you know would be 100 % alike. May agree or gel with you, But yet they maintain their individuality..

Individuality so complex and diverse ..i don’t know a single person who has it all figured out till date.

Complications of individual personalities is something which i do not wish to explore at the moment its a rather complex subject to discuss with a never ending search to a conclusion..

Human Race ever since it inhabited this earth…. thru countless generations have taken tiny steps towards discovery of everything that stands around us today… and will keep taking those steps till the end of our time

Proving the the obvious fact… Man is a thinking animal …well at least some of us still are

People make mistakes.. Thats how they learn.. Thats how they discover themselves…and everything around them
Thats how they come to terms with their personality and life

And if the obvious fact of “Man being a thinking animal” is true .. Then people who make mistakes learn from their mistakes to make smarter choices in life ahead..

Life as the years pass by has a funny way to teaching people … thru direct or indirect situations or thru reactions to actions and words of an individual… Some learn.. Some never stop chasing their own tail…and well some just never realize to learn.

Personal Experience 8 out of 10 people who one may give a second chance to will screw you over at some point or the other…. So the odds are high.

But yet there is a faint chance… Someone may learn from their mistakes .. Would you give them a chance ?

I know i would .. a word of caution if you have the patience and the heart for second chances ..

Hope … Don’t have Expectations

Peace
Timber Da Wolf