Hmm Again …

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Nothing hurts me more then cutting loose someone i trust..

Its really unfortunate under what conditions people conceive notions and base their actions upon.. maybe its justĀ  my stupidity that i till date believe that there are a handful few out there who one can trust.. After all there is alot more that defines an individuals life .. beyond the individual himself…

Life is a product of surroundings and experiences that give shape to your perspective .. which in return defines your reality

Cherish what you hold .. for everyone is not that fortunate

Cheers
Timber Da Wolf

An Oak Tree

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An Oak Tree: Michael Craig-Martin, 1973

I saw this not on facebook this afternoon…..Seems so complex in context of a conversation.. Yet i can find one word to define it…

In a room at Tate Modern there is a three-quarter full glass of water on a high shelf. It is a work by Michael Craig-Martin called An oak tree. Beside it there is the following text:

Q. To begin with, could you describe this work?

A. Yes, of course. What I’ve done is change a glass of water into a full-grown oak tree without altering the accidents of the glass of water.

Q. The accidents?

A. Yes. The colour, feel, weight, size …

Q. Do you mean that the glass of water is a symbol of an oak tree?

A. No. It’s not a symbol. I’ve changed the physical substance of the glass of water into that of an oak tree.

Q. It looks like a glass of water.

A. Of course it does. I didn’t change its appearance. But it’s not a glass of water, it’s an oak tree.

Q. Can you prove what you’ve claimed to have done?

A. Well, yes and no. I claim to have maintained the physical form of the glass of water and, as you can see, I have. However, as one normally looks for evidence of physical change in terms of altered form, no such proof exists.

Q. Haven’t you simply called this glass of water an oak tree?

A. Absolutely not. It is not a glass of water anymore. I have changed its actual substance. It would no longer be accurate to call it a glass of water. One could call it anything one wished but that would not alter the fact that it is an oak tree.

Q. Isn’t this just a case of the emperor’s new clothes?

A. No. With the emperor’s new clothes people claimed to see something that wasn’t there because they felt they should. I would be very surprised if anyone told me they saw an oak tree.

Q. Was it difficult to effect the change?

A. No effort at all. But it took me years of work before I realised I could do it.

Q. When precisely did the glass of water become an oak tree?

A. When I put the water in the glass.

Q. Does this happen every time you fill a glass with water?

A. No, of course not. Only when I intend to change it into an oak tree.

Q. Then intention causes the change?

A. I would say it precipitates the change.

Q. You don’t know how you do it?

A. It contradicts what I feel I know about cause and effect.

Q. It seems to me that you are claiming to have worked a miracle. Isn’t that the case?

A. I’m flattered that you think so.

Q. But aren’t you the only person who can do something like this?

A. How could I know?

Q. Could you teach others to do it?

A. No, it’s not something one can teach.

Q. Do you consider that changing the glass of water into an oak tree constitutes an art work?

A. Yes.

Q. What precisely is the art work? The glass of water?

A. There is no glass of water anymore.

Q. The process of change?

A. There is no process involved in the change.

Q. The oak tree?

A. Yes. The oak tree.

Q. But the oak tree only exists in the mind.

A. No. The actual oak tree is physically present but in the form of the glass of water. As the glass of water was a particular glass of water, the oak tree is also a particular oak tree. To conceive the category ‘oak tree’ or to picture a particular oak tree is not to understand and experience what appears to be a glass of water as an oak tree. Just as it is imperceivable it also inconceivable.

Q. Did the particular oak tree exist somewhere else before it took the form of a glass of water?

A. No. This particular oak tree did not exist previously. I should also point out that it does not and will not ever have any other form than that of a glass of water.

Q. How long will it continue to be an oak tree?

A. Until I change it.

Find One .. Or None

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It was a funny evening .. i was out with a few friends at baluchi’s just for casual drinks and dinner ..

During the course of the night friend happened to mention that he is really disappointing he has not had a two way click with anyone post his first wife with whom he parted ways about 4 years back … Either she is not indian or there is no chemistry or her priorities are not matching with mine or she slept with me on the first date.. the list goes on and on

i stayed with the guy for 3 years so i kinda know about the women that he has been dating over the years …and if i were t give my honest opinion .. at 42 … i think he has his bar of expectations set too high..

The second guy who was on the table is 30 something … don’t know him too well but i have heard him talk about his preference a couple of times .. and i honestly thought he needs to look on mars for a match

i know someone who is 56 and single …craves everyday that he had someone special to only talk…

The night was young and drinks where pouring across the bar … but for some strange reason i was stuck in a moment .. a lingering thought …

I first fell in love when i was 13 … with a girl that i saw one glimpse of ..went out with her for eternity.. piratically grew up with her

The second time i was 21 and well took me a month .. but i did take the leap again .. with a real bumpy 4 year ride… almost made it though

The Third time i was 26 ..took me a year … and it ended even before it started :)

I am 27 now …. “P” is 42 and “V” is 30 something “A” is 52 … hmm

Individual outlook ? Hmm maybe…. but not convincing enough

Man learns with time .. as he grows older mostly with experience…which shapes his perspective. But what man perceives need not always be the truth

The more i thought about it the more i came to terms with the fact .. That its human nature to complicate things…. even if the answer hit you smack in between your eyes…

Ignorance towards others individuality and obsession with our search for perfection often lets one miss out on the small joys of life …

As a wise man once told me.. if you seek mangoes in winter .. you shall find none ;)

Peace
Timber Da Wolf

Half Empty Glass

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A city boy, Raj, moved to the village and bought a donkey from an old farmer for Rs.1000. The farmer agreed to deliver the donkey the next day.

The next day the farmer drove up and said, “Sorry Rajji, but I have some bad news, the donkey died while I was bringing him here.”

Raj replied: “Well then, just give me my money back.” The farmer said: “Can’t do that. I went and spent it already.”
Raj said: “OK then, just unload the donkey.”
The farmer asked: “What you are going to do with him?”
Raj: “I’m going to raffle him off.” (Note: To raffle is like lottery - draw lot to a group of people each paying the same amount for a ticket and there is a big prize for the people who win.)
Farmer: “You can’t raffle off a dead donkey!”
Raj: “Sure I can. Watch me. I just won’t tell anybody he’s dead.”
A month later the farmer met up with Kenny and asked, “What happened with that dead donkey?”
Raj: “I raffled him off. I sold 500 tickets at Rs. 10 each and made a profit of Rs 4990 with the donkey worth Rs. 1000 as the prize.
Farmer: “Didn’t anyone complain?”
Raj: “Just the guy who won. So I gave him back his Rs. 10.”

No situation is so bad that it cannot be turned around. You need to just think hard. So look at your glass always as half full rather then half empty.

Time we have left …. put into perspective

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Out of all my crazy thoughts this one by far is the most scariest or at least gets one thinking …

I remember sitting across the table with a friend of mine talking about how time flew by and now that he is 30 and i am 26 … Half our lifes have almost passed us by…

He Said ” I want to call it quits by the time i am 60.. don’t wanna live post that”
it triggered a thought in my mind … thought i’d bust his chops

Me: So your 30 … You think you have another 30 years left to live your life …
Him : Yes
Me: Ah… “with a evil smile”
Me: hey did this thought every occur to you that 30 years flew by so quick cause you were sleeping for 15 out of the 30
and you would do the same for the remainder 30.. So technically .. you only have 15 years left to live
Him: Looking at me stunned he said ” You got me thinking there buddy .. its a scary thought.. Just when i was thinking i have enough time to live my life”

Never told him this … but it was a scary thought for me too which i happened to put off as a joke ..

Think about it … i know i did that night

Peace
Timber Da Wolf